Remember, women are usually pretty freaked out by strangers approaching them and she has no idea if you’re a serial killer or a teddy bear, but it’s in her best interest to protect herself from harm.
So if you come off way aggressive, “hey baby, come out with me, etc.
Instead, strike up a mutual, non-sexual conversation instead.
Granted, it’s the hard part and you only have a few minutes to make a move before the next stop comes, but if you HAVE to hit on girls in transit places, maybe you need to chill out and reconsider why you need to hit on girls this way.
If you’re beyond just getting into a girl’s pants and you really find someone with a spark in a place like this, just talk to her, sit next to her and ask her a question.
Hello Gentlemen, New Year’s is coming soon, and I know you may be feeling the slight twinge of singlehood in the back of your head.
Another year has gone by, and what you do plan to do next year?
If you plan on finding a girl, I’m going to give you some advice on how NOT to pick her up.
That’s right, sometimes learning from your mistakes is the only way you can really find someone special. Don’t try to pick up a girl on a bus, plane, train without striking up a mutual friendly conversation first.
One time, I saw a guy try to pick up a girl on the bus.
Apparently they had seen each other before on the bus, and he was trying REALLY hard to get her to date him.
This girl was hilarious, because she was frank with him and was like, you don’t even have a job and hitting on her on a bus was not her idea of a good time.
Being REALLY persistent RIGHT away is a huge turn-off for women.