I’ve been with my BF for almost four years, and picking out a gift for him is still a huge struggle.Giving advice on gifts is difficult, since I’m not a guy, and also because I don’t know your boyfriend personally. That’s why I was so excited to see this Ask Reddit thread, which asked the question, “What gifts for men are the equivalent of flowers for women?
A recent Reddit post asked divorced users to share what the final straw was that ended their marriage. I said, 'Well, I guess it's time to buy a bigger jersey.' Her response: 'We're not blowing money on a stupid jersey. Everything on it was gone: pictures of my dad with my daughter, pictures that only I had. I just realized all of a sudden that I had no more feelings for him at all. We moved to another country and I think she kind of found herself. We were just two ships drifting past each other at a really slow pace. I was hiking along a gorgeous river with two good friends, who are a couple, and watching them have so much fun together in nature. on a Sunday morning having my first and only panic attack.With more than 3,500 comments in the thread at time of this article's publication, the answers given are both heartbreaking and infuriating. He did it knowing that I had not backed up my phone and it wasn't connected to the Cloud either. When he handed me several spreadsheets outlining every time I stopped for a drink at Mc Donalds () on my way to or from running errands across the city. I couldn't handle living under a microscope anymore.5. It was both a relief after many years of debating it, and awkward because of the situation I realized that in, during a very rare episode of sex. My ex hated being outdoors or doing anything involving exercise. When I saw my friends enjoying nature together, I felt so envious and I realized that would never be me and my significant other."11. I had horrible chest pain in my heart, covered in sweat, could not breathe from the immense pressure on my chest, and slid to floor in order to vomit. I have never had anxiety or depression, and I'm a very happy person generally.Here are some of the responses that spoke to us, but you can read the rest of the thread here.1. "She found out I was going blind after three years of marriage and that sort of broke what was left of a failing relationship. I had to stop driving and move to where I walk to work to stay employed. I had called him the worst person in the world because he had requested a month of leave to visit my terminally ill father, got the leave, then decided not to buy a ticket to come visit. It hit me very suddenly that I had zero feelings in any way for him; I truly just felt done. He would make a big show of looking for work, fill out applications, then stuff them in the car and never turn them in. This panic attack was the signal it was time to leave him, after five years of crying myself to sleep after verbal abuse. "When my daughter asked me, 'Mommy, why are you always sad?I look back at that time and am pretty amazed I didn't lose my mind. I kept that to myself in the moment, but that was the definitive 'done' moment.6. "Called to tell him my mom had just died and he said 'ok' and nothing else."7. "There was no final straw, we just slowly and painfully realized we were not with the right person."8. My body rejected my marriage long before my mind, heart and soul could."12. "Him being cruel to my son (not his son, my son from a previous marriage). ' I could put up with the emotional abuse, the isolation, the accusations of infidelity, and the belittling. I never said anything and supported her attempts at weight loss.
Over the last couple of weeks we’ve been quizzing Smoochers about their dating habits and confessions, and we’ve had some amazing responses – from the side-splittingly funny to the cute and adorable! This page is updated weekly with new romantic tips and romantic ideas. Sign up for the The Tip of the Week and you will be notified of all new romantic ideas once a week.Also, by signing up for the newsletter you can win great prizes for submitting your own romantic ideas and stories.You can submit your romantic ideas using our contact form at the bottom of the page.Almost every day, I get questions from you guys asking what kind of gift you should buy your boyfriend, whether it’s for his birthday, a holiday, or an anniversary.I totally get it – picking out presents for boys is really, really hard.